Ok, one of the main things I got out of the tongue message was this Quote:
"Stop building your case, and start building a bridge." I am not a "lawyer" or fighter when it comes to being a great debator and winning...but I do tend to "build a case" in my mind. It's time(well, it's been time for a long time) to stop remembering the past for the wrong reasons. I hope to remember this and apply this to my life. I can't wait til it's really put to the test to see if I can pass "this test."